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The Sacrament of Baptism is the first step in a lifelong journey of commitment and discipleship. Whether we are baptized as infants or adults, Baptism is a way of celebrating and enacting the embrace of God.

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Wedding Officiant

Reverend Mary Balchi, Ordained Minister, Certified NYC, Experienced and Honorable

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Finding a wedding officiant to marry is often a nerve-racking ordeal. You have to trust her to share one of your life's most intimate and sacred moments. It is a choice that is vital to any successful wedding.

Alternative ways to Manage the Effects of Cancer Treatment

By Max Bowen/Staff Writer Billerica Minuteman Billerica, Mass. — When Gen Lopez was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2003, she, like many others, turned to chemotherapy and surgery to battle the disease.

Though successful, the medical procedures left her weak and nauseous. That changed when she discovered Reiki, a method of therapy that helped her lessen the pain, and live a more normal life while undergoing her treatment.

Reiki is a method of healing developed in Japan in 1922. Through this technique, practitioners channel healing energy through their hands. It is not a religious practice, and Lopez said belief in its effectiveness doesn’t influence the treatment.

Chemotherapy, which she underwent every two weeks, left Lopez very ill, unable to sleep or relax. she attended a Reiki session and was amazed at how she felt afterwards. While the technique was no miracle cure for the side effects, she said it allowed her to return to work the next day.

“It absolutely decreases the pain,” Lopez said. “It helps to heal faster.”

Lopez said the effectiveness of Reiki differs from person to person, that some feel more relaxed, while others say they feel waves of energy coursing through their body. As a nurse, Lopez knows that traditional medicine is effective, but believes that alternatives like Reiki can offer something more.

“If there is something that can make it easier, why not?” Lopez said.

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We Will All Miss You

In Loving Memory

Shawn Clary, 58, a Life Coach, died suddenly Monday, August 30, 2010 at Methodist University Hospital. Shawn was a graduate of Memphis State University and went on to a successful career in the beauty industry, to inclue Director of International Sales Training for Matrix Essentials Inc. Shawn will be remembered by so many for his beautiful voice, charisma, and love of Memphis.

Brain cells -- not lack of willpower -- determine obesity, study finds

ScienceDaily (2010-09-08) -- An international team of scientists has discovered the reason why some people who eat a high-fat diet remain slim, yet others pile on the weight. The study found that a high-fat diet causes brain cells to become insulated from the body preventing vital signals, which tell the body to stop eating and to burn energy, from reaching the brain efficiently. ... > read full article

Clarity

It has come to my awareness that, our world is a reflection of who we really are, for example if you concentrate on LOVE you have love in your life and the same holds true for anger,guilt, shame etc.

These feeling create our world, be aware of the world you create lets create LOVE, PEACE, and JOY

"Overwhelment is about you not being up to speed with what you told the Universe that you want. The Universe is yielding to you. You're just not ready to receive it right now." ~ Abraham ~

The Damage of Criticism

The Damage of Criticism

     The effect that criticism has upon a person, explains that when you verbally attack me, it is a given that I will retaliate. It isn’t much different than if you were physically assaulting me. I perceive your words as an attack against the essence of me, and it is almost within the category of self-defense for me to strike back at you. Every fiber of my being screams out to defend myself against the onslaught of your words.

     Criticism is but one step below a verbal attack. It isn’t quite as pointed, not quite as aggressive- but not that far off. When you criticize me, I am under attack. The essence of me, who I am, and what I stand for is being assaulted. You may not have intended it that way, but that is what I feel. There is a powerful sense of disapproval and condemnation that comes across, and I feel under attack. No one likes to be criticized, and the easiest course is to avoid the pain by pulling away. The greater you are in my eyes, the greater the damage of your words, and the more they will drive a wedge between us.

     The realty is that we humans are very sensitive; we hunger for approval and despise rejection. When you criticize me, it may not be your intention, but I feel unwanted and unaccepted. I feel that you don’t approve of me so I am not respected in your eyes. That emotion is very difficult to bear. The easiest course is for me to run away- away from the situation, and away from you.

     For that reason, criticism is poison to all relationships. As a parent, it is one of the most noxious elements that can ruin an otherwise strong relationship.  As a spouse, it can be the wedge that drives apart an otherwise happily married couple. And among friends, it can be the force that ends an otherwise nurturing relationship.

     One of the most difficult experiences for a person to live through is disapproval. When I am aware that you disapprove of me, it is so hurtful that, rather than bear the pain, I avoid it by avoiding you. The more I value your opinion, the more hurt I will feel, and the more those words will cause me to want to escape your presence.

     Three rules of criticism. For that reason, before a person sets out to criticize, he should remember the three cardinal rules of criticism. The first rule is; don’t do it. The second rule is; don’t do it. And the third rule is; don’t do it.

     Don’t do it, because it hurts. Don’t do it, because it distances people. Most of all, don’t do it, because it does not work.

     Even if your intentions are to help, and even if you only mean these words for the good of the recipient, criticism is a powerful separator that accomplishes no good, merely drives people apart, and should be avoided like the plague.

                                         

  By R’Ben Tzion Shafier

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Success Through Failure

How many of us has experienced Success through Failure? Hypnosis helps to put all of the pieces of the puzzle together.

Thank You to all of my Friends

Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.-Unknown

"What is Reiki?"

Explore the Ancient Art Of Healing,


Level- I, II, III, Master

Reiki is a path of continuous growth and healing, of learning and accepting, evolving into the being that dwells deep within your soul.

Join me on this path, Experience change, see the beauty in yourself and the world around you.

Individual sessions and on going classes available please call for information and scheduling.

Become a part of a community of healers, take responsibility for your own healing.

Learn Reiki, open your heart to the possibilities of being healed and allowing healing to flow through you to heal someone else.
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Are you dreaming of a personalized wedding, This Special Wedding will make a beautiful beginning to your new life and a unique gift to give each other


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marybalchi@gmail.com
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